Wayne and Debra have been married for 8 years and have two kids, 6 and 4. They're both hard workers and rarely spend alone time. Their families are on the West Coast which is where they both are from. They have no family support here and that's the reason they stay home a lot. They have no one to watch their kids. Recently they found a neighbor's kid that's a college student and she has been babysitting for them. She's been amazing!
THE SITUATION:
Wayne and Debra had dinner with co-workers on Tuesday night and asked if their neighbor's daughter to babysit again. She has been great in the past and the kids absolutely love her! Wednesday morning, Wayne noticed that their security camera had an alert. He checked the camera and saw a young man coming to the back door, and the sitter let him in. They saw her kiss him at the door before he entered the house. About 30 minutes before they were due home, the young men left the same way he came in and again, the babysitter kissed him at the door. Wayne is mad because one of the rules of the house is to have no guests while they are gone. He thinks it's a big deal.
Debra saw the video and isn't that upset. She checked the time and the kids were asleep when the guy came over. With the video, she could tell that she checked on the kids every 20 minutes. Now what they did between the time she checked on the kids, only they know. Debra still thinks the babysitter is responsible. Wayne and Debra have plans for a weekend getaway next weekend. It's long overdue and they're both excited about it. If Wayne confronts the sitter about breaking the rules, chances are she won't sit for them again and they would have to cancel next weekend. Debra feels the young lady has been very responsible when it comes to the kids. She also feels the babysitter is trustworthy when it comes to them. Wayne doesn't like the fact that she had a stranger in the house. Debra still wants to go on the weekend getaway and instead, confront her when they return. She would never let their kids stay with her if she felt there was a problem.
WHO DO YOU SIDE WITH ON SIDETAKERS?
If you side with Wayne, he'll confront the sitter and they will have to cancel their romantic weekend.
If you side with Debra, they won't say anything until after the trip.